Note to Shannon and Nikki:

Desperation and begging are not attractive!!!!! Crying in his arms, "Come home with me!!" is not going to get you a kiss let alone a boyfriend!

Nikki: It's not about being perfect. There is no such thing. It's not about who's better or prettier or smarter! This isn't high school. It's about being right for someone! It makes me so sad how insecure some of these girls are who are so amazing and talented and with just a little therapy they could see that if they don't learn how to feel good about themselves on their own first, then they are just going to put way too much pressure on a relationship. And one other thing... Nikki, the fact that you were with someone for ELEVEN years and it was a shock that he didn't want to marry you just screams that you were in total denial and in an immature relationship not based on openness or communication. Maybe this experience will help get these girls get some help....

Note to the gals:

Natalie: Attraction and Connection are NOT the same thing. She had no concept that Jason could be attracted to her and yet still feel that they had nothing in common and had no chemistry. She is the perfect example of a girl who has relied on her looks all her life to get her everything and has not bothered to develop herself beyond that. I was not at all shocked that Jason was able to see very quickly that she was a fairly shallow and immature individual....hopefully there is someone else in that house who is more than that. It remains to be seen: Megan IS kind of a scary bitch. Shannon is very sweet but let's face it, she's a total mess! Lauren is an immature drama-girl and Nikki is lovely but has NO idea who the hell she is or how to be comfortable in her own skin. Molly and Gillian seem sorta cool and Stephanie is nice and a great mom but I just do not see chemistry between her and Jason. Oh - and if she's 34, I'm a blonde.

See ya'll next week.

Return of Bachelor Blog!

I'm back, ya'll. Stay tuned for my first post on the season premiere Monday night, January 5th!!